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Wednesday, September 25, 2013

FALL COMES ON

I’m not writing so much about “Genealogy” today, but I am writing about our ancestors, how they survived their hard rough life, and how I honor them in this day and time.

I saw the first orange leaf on my maple tree out front yesterday.  Fall is coming to my space, here on the edge of the Blue Ridge
FALL GLORY
Mountains.  In a few more weeks the hills will be flowing with yellows, oranges, and browns.  The mountains will look as if a piece of colorful fabric had been thrown over them like a warm snuggie.  All the instincts of mankind will plug in, and storing up, packing in, drying, canning, preserving of every kind will kick in.  We will be lining our nests, hunkering down in our best survival mode, to outwit the cold hard winter.

All the summer goodies in the local farmer’s market, the peaches, tomatoes, squashes, beans and peas are mostly cleared out now, taken home to be preserved by canning or freezing. They’ll be replaced with the treasures of fall: cider and apples from the mountains, collards, cabbages, broccoli,  onions, winter squash.  In my garden, I have had cabbages, onions, and collards, last way into the early spring, covered often by the snow.  Nothing is prettier than green scallions peeking through the white snow.
SUMMER'S HARVEST
All summer I have brought in the luscious yellow peaches grown just ten miles down the road in South Carolina.  I slice them, sugar them, let them sit a while to make sweet pink juice, and then bag them in single servings for the freezer.  I have done the same with straw-berries and blueberries grown on this same farm.  These beautiful fruits have not come 2000 miles on a refrigerated train.  The strawberries do not have hard white centers.  The peaches drip juice all over you when you eat them.  I have put up fig preserves from the fig trees growing all around this same farmer’s market building.  I can have “fresh” fruit all winter long, until the new crop comes in next summer.  I have canned tomatoes, salsa, and spaghetti sauce.  I have made peach jam and dill pickles.1  I ferment my pickles in a crock, and then put them up in glass jars in my fridge.  I have some there now, from last year, still perfect.  I will soon make new apple butter2, aromatic with cinnamon and cloves (oh the house smells so good on that day.)  I am waiting for the house temperature to drop down to about 65 – 70 degrees to make my sour kraut.  Did you see my blog of August 7  The Kraut Barrel?   I’m waiting to see who of you will join me in this new adventure.  Read The Kraut Barrel  and then go out and buy a cabbage.  We will do this together.  Let me know how it goes. Come back to me on the “COMMENTS” block at the bottom of each blog

All this is fun, but it brings to mind the plight of our ancestors.  If they had not done all this, they would have starved during the cold winter.  It was not a matter of “hobby,” or “crafting,” or a “fun” afternoon for them.  It was a matter of survival!   I've written before about the Leather Britches Beans from the Foxfire  books 3,  (see blog  IN PRAISE OF WOMEN, July 10.)  If they had not canned enough vegetables, dried enough fruits, preserved enough meat, salted enough fish, stored enough potatoes, yams, turnips, cabbages, etc., in their “root cellar,” their children would have gone hungry.  If they had not put by enough grains of wheat, or dried enough corn kernels to take to the miller to be ground, there would have been no bread.

Think about this for a minute.  This is such a foreign concept to us that we can hardly wrap our minds around it.  There is no huge 
SNOW STORM  5
supermarket a few blocks down the street (or even in the STATE!) there is no “jiffy mart” around the corner where you can send someone for a loaf of bread.  The preserved meat is long gone, and the dried corn has just run out.  It is a cold March.  What would you do? 



I often think about the isolated farmer’s wives, and the women in the hidden valleys of the mountains, way back in the hollers.  Their whole existence was about surviving, keeping their children alive. And the man of the home - it was his duty to protect his family.  He has done the best that he could, worked beyond imagining, and it has gone awry, they have run out of food!  How does he cope, what does he do?  

Of course it would have been different for the city people, the folks who lived in towns, and had town jobs.  Ideally they would have had their salary all year.  But bad weather, blizzards, etc., could have put a crimp in their survival also.  There were no paid “sick” days.  If the business had to close for some reason, there was no pay.  Heating fuel, whether wood or oil, was needed in abundance in the northern part of the country.  If food was not grown nearby, or in that season, or the crop had failed, it was not available.  City wives would have had to preserve and can, and “put by” for the winter also.


 And always lurking around the corner, hiding in some deep, dark crevasse was disease, ready to pounce on the unexpecting, the weak and malnourished.  You couldn’t run out and get a  

Asphidity Bag
flu shot at Walgreens, or an antibiotic from the local doctor.  You suffered through it with your hot “toddy” and your mustard plaster or onion poultice.  Or maybe your grandma made an Asphidity bag 4 to tie around your neck to keep away colds, flu, and congestion.

To me it seems a horrifying existence.  And I would not have wanted to live in that period, or under those circumstances.  All of our ancestors endured problems like this.  They seemed to have found a way to survive, because we are here!  They were brave and resourceful people.  Give them the honor and respect they all deserve

Survive, remember, and honor


   1.  Recipe for fermented pickles         – see next page – Announcements,
        Info, and Incidentals.




2.  Recipe for Shirley’s Apple butter    – see next page – Announcements,



        Info, and Incidentals.

3.FOXFIRE BOOKS: (Edited by Eliot Wigginton. Published by Anchor Press,     the first editions in 1972, 1973 and 1975)  In the early 1970s a high school in Rabun Gap, Georgia, right in the heart of the high mountain counties of Macon (NC) Habersham and Rabun (SC) decided that all the mountain lore of that region, all the knowledge of how to exist in that extreme environment, which was stored in the brains of the old inhabitants of that land, needed to be captured before they were all gone.  And the current young people needed to know what had gone before them.  So for years, they assigned the students the job of interviewing those old mountain people, starting out with their own families.  They went up into the hills searching out what people knew and writing it down.  Sometimes they used audio media to capture the sound of these folks telling their own stories.  Eventually there were 12 books.  It is a marvelous set of books, stories about the ones who came before us.  You might find one in your library.
 see them still available on EBay and Amazon.






 4. An Asphidity bag was a folk remedy most commonly found in the Appalachian Mountains and the south in the 18th and 19th centuries.  They were also used by the Cherokee Indians.  Usually, it was a tiny bag of very smelly herbs, often including garlic, ginseng, pokeweed, goldenseal, and yellow root.  However, the exact recipe varied by the maker.  The vapors were supposed to ward off colds, flu, or other diseases.  It was often said that the disease was warded off because no one would (or                                 could) come near you!
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Wednesday, September 4, 2013

CAN YOU FEEL YOUR ROOTS

Sorry there was no blog last week.  We were sick with a virus!  Well . . . my computer was, and had to go “in hospital” for several days.  As when that happens, there is always rehabilitation needed at home afterwards.  My “favorites bar” was missing.  The pages I go to for two extra email accounts that I use were not in evidence.  It took several days to get everything back to normal.  We are now recuperating nicely, thank you very much.


Can you Feel Your Root s ?
I am a believer in psychic energy.  I believe that there are all kinds of information “out there” in the universe, floating around, just waiting on us to pick up on it.  A long time ago, for many years, I was a member of a wonderfully interesting group of people who met each week to explore the many phases of ESP, what is now called “the paranormal.”  Now there are scads of programs on TV delving into the realms of paranormal diversities.  Today the paranormal is almost normal.  But back then, we were the “outcasts”, the oddballs; people rolled their eyes when we talked about what we had experienced.  We ignored them and went right on having a marvelous time exploring the edges of “normal.”

But during that time, I experienced things, saw things, was involved in things that made me KNOW what I KNOW.  I am uniquivitely not intimidated by skeptics who wish to argue about things which they have neither seen nor experienced.  After all, it would be the same thing as me arguing with a nuclear physicist about nuclear fission which I know nothing about!  And I know that there is a lot more in this world than our mind lets us see.  There is more to reality than our conscious brain wants us to know.

But, getting to GENEALOGY, my open mindedness on this subject makes me wonder sometimes if we really feel things, know things, hear the faint whispers which are all around us.  As if our ancestors are reaching out to us, steering us to information we are searching for.  Is it psychological or physical?  I don’t know.  But it happened when I just knew that Catherine Wentz was my Catherine (see blog Butterfly Whispers from the Past  dated June 28th.)  And I always felt that my great, great grandfather, Josiah Haywood (who never came home from the Civil War and none of the family knew why) was leading me on to find him on the bloody battlefield of Bentonville. 

I have had these feelings over and over again through the years.  Before I discovered my great grandfather, Benton Haywood, my extended family did not know anything beyond 1850 Union-/Mecklenburg Counties as our HAYWOOD origins.  Then I found Benton across the Catawba River in Lincoln County in 1830.  “Who knew!”  This is really my “main” line, the only one that does not go back into the sixteen or seventeen hundreds.  It is my “brick wall,” and really needs researching.  When I decided to retire and return to North Carolina, where did I settle down?  Down on the coast where I grew up, where my sister still lives?  On the east side of Charlotte where all my lines of relatives still live?  NO!  Something led me to the west side of Charlotte where I was right next door to Lincoln County.  It made for easy researching this part of the state when I am trying to take Benton back further to possibly link him with SAMUEL HAYWARD, Anson Co, 1755.  Where Samuel received four land grants is now right in what became Lincolnton, Lincoln Co, NC, on the south side of the South Fork (of the Catawba River) on a creek called Fisher’s Creek before Samuel arrived, and Howard’s Creek ever after.  (As you know Haywood, Hayward, and Howard were completely interchangeable back then.  I believe the creek was named for Samuel, and towards 1800 some people were even calling it Haywood’s Creek.)  I have the same feeling about Samuel that I had about Catherine.  I just know he is mine.  I just have to prove it.

I had these same feelings the first time I arrived in Paris.  I have always been fascinated by all things French.  I have no explanation for this.  There is no French in my family, no connections of any kind.  However my whole family knows that when presented with something French  I become completely unglued.  It can be home décor, food, theater, history – WHATEVER – completely unglued.  I began teaching myself French years before I was finally able to go to the Sorbonne in Paris for a “summer” class in French Language and Culture.  I have seen Les Miz 6 or 7 times.  When it comes time in the production for those students (rebels) who are getting ready for the great battle on the next day to march across the stage, waving that huge red flag, the tears just roll down my face, and I am completely undone.  No matter how many times I see it, I know it is coming, it still happens.  I feel like I have a personal connection with those people demonstrating against the unfeeling monarchy, and about to die.  The first time I arrived in Paris, on a bus with a tour group, just off the ferry in Calais, we came into town on the Peripherique, the auto route encircling Paris.  We were slightly higher up than the city which sits in a small bowl.  I was looking down on Paris.  It looked familiar.  I felt as if I knew it.  I felt as if I were coming home.  I knew the city.  I have no explanation.  It just WAS! 

It leads me to believe that at some time in the past, I was French, I lived in Paris, I knew those people.  Another little bit of “knowing” sifting through time and space.  A connection.  A connection to Catherine.  A connection to Josiah.  A connection to Samuel.  When you get those little nudges, a feeling of “knowing” that overtakes you, don’t turn it off.  Don’t disregard it.  If you do that long enough, they will stop sending you whispers.  Butterfly whispers from the past.

Remember

I would like to know what you think about all this.  Please send me a Comment telling me about your experiences with the whispers!

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